Comments on: Sexual Assault Prevention Tips that Really Work!

By: Liz Swan

Liz Swan — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 21:39:36 +0000

Brilliant. I love how people are taking this as something that’s supposed to prevent rape, because it’s not- but it’s reading things like this that make victims smile when not the entire general public says that she shouldn’t of gone walking alone at night, etc. Puts the blame where it belongs.

By: Am I just paranoid, or… « Feminist Activism

Am I just paranoid, or… « Feminist Activism — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 19:20:39 +0000

[...] then changed her/his mind, is underage… just don’t. -If that isn’t clear, read this. -If you still don’t get it, watch this. -Don’t tell rape jokes. -Don’t use the [...]

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 16:10:07 +0000

“very very few people would regard me as somehow complicit in the theft of my car. So why do we live in a world where, when a woman is raped, a violent and violating experience of the highest degree, the first response endorsed by society is “oh well she should have X, Y or Z”?”

YES. Thank you.

By: Bettakultcha IX June 2011 « Claireot's Blog

Bettakultcha IX June 2011 « Claireot's Blog — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 09:37:20 +0000

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By: Rape and sexual assault prevention tips… | HumanistLife

Rape and sexual assault prevention tips… | HumanistLife — Wed, 11 May 2011 16:41:14 +0000

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By: Rape is Rape | Godless Girl

Rape is Rape | Godless Girl — Mon, 02 May 2011 20:05:22 +0000

[...] out a previous post about preventing rape and one about rape in the Bible. Hey there, stranger! If you are new here, you might want to [...]

By: NotSoMightyGod

NotSoMightyGod — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:02:33 +0000

‘wore fine linens’.. she’s not made of fine linens.. We use vinyl for that sort of toy now.

By: NotSoMightyGod

NotSoMightyGod — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:01:28 +0000

As a male who has never raped anyone, I can add the following tip out there for other males who like females:

If you want a woman to feel safe and comfortable being sensual, dressing in an attractive manner and being intimate with you. Don’t rape her.

Personal experience has taught me that women think that guys that do that a ‘kinda jerky’ and it’s a real turn off.

Maybe I should add that to the Song of Solomon.. “And she were fine linens and danced; for he raped her not. And they took delight one with the other.”

By: Adam

Adam — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 09:50:30 +0000

Clare… the first statement is for “people” who blame women for being raped. In my experience, and I suspect yours, women can be just as vicious proponents of the belief that if a women is raped it is somehow partly her fault.

RP… *no-one* is suggesting people should not, or should not be encouraged to, take measures to protect themselves. These lists are semi-humourously about attitude change. If I park my car in a slightly dodgy neighbourhood, it may not be considered the smartest move but very very few people would regard me as somehow complicit in the theft of my car. So why do we live in a world where, when a woman is raped, a violent and violating experience of the highest degree, the first response endorsed by society is “oh well she should have X, Y or Z”?

By: Clare

Clare — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 07:57:31 +0000

Hi RP

The first statement is for men who blame women for being raped.
The second statement is for men who take no responsibility for raping women.

Your reply entirely buys into ‘She was asking for it.